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Hello, I found out about Jonghyun, and SHINee nearly 11 years ago, 3rd November 2011 to be precise in London, UK, when I was standing by the elevator at the Corinthia Hotel.
I had no idea who they were, however, he was strikingly gorgeous, I was spellbound from that day onwards.
What beautiful eyes, and what a beautiful welcoming smile. I was staying there the night to see a show called The Lion King.
That meeting was the beginning of a beautiful, long continuing, everlasting love for a man who is like no other, a beautiful precious soul who deserved better. we all feel that way. I will always love him and as always I need you Jonghyun.
I am a spiritual person and have empathy for many people like you who are troubled in how they want to express their ongoing feelings. Some will say to you, move on, that it's been 4 and a bit years,.....get over it.
All I can say is I understand how you are feeling,...your concerns.
I had no idea who they were, however, he was strikingly gorgeous, I was spellbound from that day onwards.
What beautiful eyes, and what a beautiful welcoming smile. I was staying there the night to see a show called The Lion King.
That meeting was the beginning of a beautiful, long continuing, everlasting love for a man who is like no other, a beautiful precious soul who deserved better. we all feel that way. I will always love him and as always I need you Jonghyun.
I am a spiritual person and have empathy for many people like you who are troubled in how they want to express their ongoing feelings. Some will say to you, move on, that it's been 4 and a bit years,.....get over it.
All I can say is I understand how you are feeling,...your concerns.
Need Help?
There are many professional services I can try and recommend if it is too much to deal with, and I stress how important it is to seek help.
I have listed some ideas and websites further down the page.
However, don't let anyone try to stifle your feelings, because they don't want to hear them. Jonghyun cried to you know. We all cry as we are human.
If this is how you still feel, then come here and seek solace, join groups, even better join my group I would be happy to meet you, its a group where we can celebrate his life, post photos, and support each other. We all feel down at times, some suffer from depression or maybe we know someone in that situation. Jonghyuns smile, the most beautiful smile had been hiding the worst kind of pain.
My motto is to try walking a mile in someone else’s shoes, this is what Jonghyun taught me. I want to help spread his message....talking about shoes, I do have his sneakers. I will treasure them forever. I promised his Mom and Sister that I would cherish them.
There are many groups on Facebook, not just mine, try and join these and make new friends from around the world, with a kindred spirit. That's what Jjong would want you to do..trust me.
Click here for a link to mine: Blingtastic Jonghyun. I have a page too here: Blingtastic Jonghyun. please visit and Like.
Just meet new people and talk about Jonghyun.
This was Jonghyun.
This is what he was about.
His words helped so many.
He stood up for minorities.
I have listed some ideas and websites further down the page.
However, don't let anyone try to stifle your feelings, because they don't want to hear them. Jonghyun cried to you know. We all cry as we are human.
If this is how you still feel, then come here and seek solace, join groups, even better join my group I would be happy to meet you, its a group where we can celebrate his life, post photos, and support each other. We all feel down at times, some suffer from depression or maybe we know someone in that situation. Jonghyuns smile, the most beautiful smile had been hiding the worst kind of pain.
My motto is to try walking a mile in someone else’s shoes, this is what Jonghyun taught me. I want to help spread his message....talking about shoes, I do have his sneakers. I will treasure them forever. I promised his Mom and Sister that I would cherish them.
There are many groups on Facebook, not just mine, try and join these and make new friends from around the world, with a kindred spirit. That's what Jjong would want you to do..trust me.
Click here for a link to mine: Blingtastic Jonghyun. I have a page too here: Blingtastic Jonghyun. please visit and Like.
Just meet new people and talk about Jonghyun.
This was Jonghyun.
This is what he was about.
His words helped so many.
He stood up for minorities.
We are all in this together. 10 years...15 years...eternity. we feel what WE want to feel about him. Always remember the legend that is Kim Jonghyun. We never know what somebody else is feeling...remember that.
Thank you so much for being part of this celebration of all things Jonghyun. There are plenty of ways that you can become more involved. Let's keep Jonghyun in everyone's memory. He worked so hard, he really did well.
Seven ideas.....
1. Give yourself time and accept your feelings.
2. Don't Isolate Yourself. Spend time with friends and family
3. Take good care of yourself. Importantly eat.
4. Return to hobbies if it feels too hard.
5. Talk to others. I cannot emphasize how important this is.
6. Join a support group. It’s good to share your feelings.
7. Be kind to others..... yes if you can be anything, then please be kind.
SHINee is Jonghyun. SHINee are 5 forever.
LEGENDS AREN'T MEANT TO BE FORGOTTEN……….
1. Give yourself time and accept your feelings.
2. Don't Isolate Yourself. Spend time with friends and family
3. Take good care of yourself. Importantly eat.
4. Return to hobbies if it feels too hard.
5. Talk to others. I cannot emphasize how important this is.
6. Join a support group. It’s good to share your feelings.
7. Be kind to others..... yes if you can be anything, then please be kind.
SHINee is Jonghyun. SHINee are 5 forever.
LEGENDS AREN'T MEANT TO BE FORGOTTEN……….
Call NHS 111 (for when you need help but are not in immediate danger) Contact your GP and ask for an emergency appointment. Contact the Samaritans (details above)
Use the 'Shout' crisis text line - text SHOUT to 85258.
For emotional support you can call the Samaritans 24-hour helpline on 116 123, email jo@samaritans.org, visit a Samaritans branch in person or go to the Samaritans website.
If you're a young person, or concerned about a young person, you can also contact PAPYRUSPrevention of Young Suicide UK. Their HOPELINK digital support platform is open 24/7, or you can call 0800 068 4141, text 07860039967or email: pat@papyrus-uk.orgbetween the hours of 9am and midnight.
Use the 'Shout' crisis text line - text SHOUT to 85258.
For emotional support you can call the Samaritans 24-hour helpline on 116 123, email jo@samaritans.org, visit a Samaritans branch in person or go to the Samaritans website.
If you're a young person, or concerned about a young person, you can also contact PAPYRUSPrevention of Young Suicide UK. Their HOPELINK digital support platform is open 24/7, or you can call 0800 068 4141, text 07860039967or email: pat@papyrus-uk.orgbetween the hours of 9am and midnight.
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